Bitchy comments can be painful to the person they are said to as well as family members. Some people will use bitchy comments to make a point and then say they were joking. But either way they can be hurtful to someone that can’t or won’t take a joke.
So, why make bitchy comments? Why not just say what you mean in a nice way? Does using bitchy comments get you anywhere in this world? Do they get you respect? Do they make you friends? The answer to all of these questions is no. Some people just are not happy if they can’t make light of others with bitchy comments.
They think it makes them look and feel superior to others that they are saying this type of comment to. If you can’t say anything nice to someone then don’t say anything at all. We see a lot of these kinds of bitchy comments being used on the social network sites.
There is a lot of the people on these sites there for good reasons. They don’t appreciate being at the mercy of these comments. These comments make you look like you are not really happy with yourself, and so you hide behind these bitchy comments.
The ones making the comments probably have very low self-esteem and use this as a way to express their feelings without actually speaking the truth. Some who use these types of comments may not even realize how bad they hurt some people. Sometimes the comments are made because of jealousy. Some people just get pleasure from being mean to others by using these comments. But, we don’t have to read them, we can delete them if they are on our social network, or not socialize with them in person. Then, maybe they will realize what it takes to be a friend.
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